Two Black Panthers have been blocking the entrance to a precinct with a night stick in an attempt to stop people from voting, witnesses tell Fox News. The one Black Panther is actually still there, but police were dispatched to the scene.

Motive? Witnesses say that the men were telling them that the era of white supremacy is over and that a black man would be president.

Now Imagine 2 white persons standing their in white robes and white hats holding a nightstick. They would have been locked up in 5 minutes and charged with felony voter intimidation and a hate crime. Double standard? I thought the black man was discriminated against in America, looks to me they receive certain perks alot of people don’t. Academic perks, lower requirements to get into medical school and law school, businesses have hiring requirements when it comes to African Americans, and not to mention any crime commited against a African American can be comsidered a hate crime.

I totally agree no one should be discriminated against because of someone’s race, nationality, gender, or religious affiliation, but these types of perks are discriminatory against people who are non-African American. So in a sense African Americans are treated differently than others living in the USA, they are given perks many of us don’t enjoy.

Those 2 black panthers above werent charged with anything. I dare say is that fair? You decide!

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Cleopatra: The True Story

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Few characters in history have been as romanticized, mischaracterized or mythologized more than Cleopatra VII, the last queen of Egypt. In his new biography, Duane W. Roller, professor emeritus of Greek and Latin at Ohio State University, attempts to set down the facts of Cleopatra’s life, as best as can be reconstructed purely from the historical record. His stated purpose is to portray the many other dimensions of Cleopatra — the skilled linguist, battle commander and formidable diplomat and ruler.

However, his compulsively readable biography confirms, rather than dispels, most of the myths. If you’ve seen the 1963 Cleopatra, with Elizabeth Taylor and Robert Burton, then you already know most of the storyline. The only difference is that instead of being a spoiled seductress who stamps her feet when she doesn’t get what she wants, Roller says that Cleopatra is a canny schemer, who sleeps with some people and kills others to get what she wants. Roller, for example, conjectures that Cleopatra seduced Julius Caesar and Marcus Antonius (more commonly known as Mark Antony) for strategic purposes. It doesn’t change the fact that she arranged to have herself brought into Caesar’s chambers in a bag, though. The facts are pretty colorful, even when thoroughly academized.

To recap: Cleopatra was the last ruler in a long line of Greek kings, who traced their lineage all the way back to two companions of Alexander the Great. She was, perhaps, one-quarter Egyptian and three-quarters Greek. Her illustrious heritage was belied by her predecessors, including her own father, Ptolemy XII, who was a weak-willed playboy that did his best to bankrupt the country and who was known, derisively, as “The Flute Player.”

By the time Cleopatra turned 20, she had maneuvered herself onto the biggest throne in the world, contending with a father that bumped off his own offspring, a historic drought that was causing mass starvation, wars among her territories, and Rome, looming at Egypt’s edges and eying its wealth hungrily. She used a combination of intelligence, charisma, wealth, fearlessness and her uterus to maintain her throne and to increase her territories. Given the treacherous political waters of the time, it’s a marvel that she held on to her throne as long as she did.

Roller packs a ton of information into not very many pages, covering topics as varied as the history of the Ptolemiac kings, the melding of Egyptian and Greek religions, scholarship at the Library of Alexandria and the details of Cleopatra’s tableware — gold and silver, with crystal cups, and she wrote love letters to Antonius on crystal tablets.

In the course of doing so, Roller also explains the background of some of the myths: Yes, it’s true that Cleopatra had herself smuggled into Caesar’s quarters in a bag, and conceived a son with him over the course of several months that remained Caesar’s only acknowledged offspring. But she didn’t do it because she was some lascivious groupie.

At that point, Cleopatra was joint ruler of Egypt with her brother, who was the puppet of several older administrators. She knew she needed to cement her hold on the throne, and what better way than to form an alliance — the most unbreakable kind — with the most powerful man in the world? Plus, Cleopatra was in a double bind. She needed to conceive an heir, but she couldn’t do so with someone who was of lesser stature than she. As a queen and Egyptian goddess, the incarnation of Isis, there was literally no one who matched her rank.

She even outranked both Caesar and Antonius, but who else was left? And who better to help protect Egypt from Rome than two of the three triumvirs? It’s not her fault she couldn’t marry them. They were both already married.

It’s not actually known whether or not Cleopatra was beautiful — there are no exact portraits of her, except the profile printed on her coins. What Plutarch said, and what everyone who met her agreed upon, was that the force of her personality and her charm far outweighed any physical attractiveness. She was a forceful, gripping orator. She was incredibly educated; she spoke seven languages and was probably the first Ptolemaic ruler to speak Egyptian. She wrote several pharmacological treatises. She was a skilled naval commander who personally led her ships in battle.

When her kingdom fell apart, it was because she was allied with the wrong of the two triumvirs. The situation in Rome was dicey. Octavian, the great-nephew of Julius Caesar, had inherited Caesar’s position in the triumvirate with Marcus Antonius and Marcus Lepidus over Cleopatra’s and Caesar’s son, Caesarion. This did not encourage Cleopatra to ally herself with Octavian, and further actions convinced her of this even more. Octavian proceeded to exile Lepidus, and when Antonius protested, Octavian launched a propaganda war against Antonius and his Egyptian mistress that continues, almost to this day. That eventually culminated in an actual war.

And yes, it’s true that Antonius committed suicide after the Battle of Actium, which was the deciding battle in the final war for the Roman Republic, and that Cleopatra killed herself a month later. But hers wasn’t a romantic decision. Antonius’s suicidal tendencies were well-known, and Cleopatra manipulated him into stabbing himself. She wanted to eliminate what had become a serious liability, because she had options that he did not.

She had hopes of regaining her kingdom. Cleopatra was the was the last living descendant of two Greek dynasties, a goddess in Egypt and the mother of four children, all of whom were the offspring of two triumvirs. Octavian couldn’t kill her without rendering Egypt extremely unstable and turning her orphaned children into martyrs and the focus of a rebellion; he wanted her alive but powerless. She only killed herself when it became clear that Octavian wanted to lead her in a Roman triumph, or a procession that would display her as one of Rome’s conquests. And no, she didn’t kill herself with an asp. Asps are too unreliable. The only evidence was some pinpricks in her arm, probably a poison administered through needles.

Common Myths About Cleopatra
-She was Egyptian-
Nope, she was Greek. Her family lived in Egypt for three hundred years or so, which might make her Egyptian in your eyes and mine, but to the Egyptians she was still Greek. She was descended from the general Ptolemy who served under Alexander the Great during his conquests. Following Alexander’s untimely death, Ptolemy and two other generals divided up his empire and he got Egypt.

-She was beautiful-
Depends on who you ask, but most would agree that she wouldn’t have won any beauty contests. She had a large hooked nose and fleshy face. You can see this in the Roman coins Antony had minted in her honor. Elizabeth Taylor she wasn’t.

-Cleopatra wore her hair with bangs-
Watching any of the Hollywood movies based on her “life,” one would assume it was the height of Egyptian fashion to wear bangs. Not so, Cleopatra wore a wig of tight curls on her shaven head. Claudette Colbert in Cecil B. DeMille’s 1934 classic wore bangs because she had a personal fondness for them. In the early 1960′s bangs were ‘in’, so Elizabeth Taylor wore them in the 1963 re-make.

-Cleopatra was so wickedly decadent she dissolved a monstrously expensive pearl in a cup of vinegar (or wine).-
Maybe they made vinegar differently in those days, but currently, pearls do not dissolve in vinegar.

-Julius Caesar was in love with her-
Doubtful. If he was interested in her, it was for her money. Egypt was a rich country and the Roman civil wars were expensive. Of course, he claimed the money was owed to him anyhow due to a large debt Cleopatra’s father ran up. In fact he was so enamored with her he made sure she got a proper marriage – to someone else, her brother.

-Antony fell in love with Cleopatra at first sight-
They knew each other for years before they ever fell in love; assuming that he loved her at all.

-Antony loved Cleopatra-
This one could be true, but let’s examine the evidence. There was the time they met in Asia Minor and made love. Afterwards, Antony agreed to kill Cleopatra’s sister so that she wouldn’t have any challenges to her authority. Then he went back to his wife.
Luckily for Cleopatra, his wife died about this time, so he immediately married – someone else. His second wife Octavia was the sister of his rival, Octavian. The marriage helped Antony maintain his political position. Of course, as soon as he found the time, he ran off to see Cleopatra and the twins he fathered. Cleopatra was irritated. It had been three and a half years since he had visited.

-Cleopatra killed herself out of grief after the death of Antony-
No doubt she was upset at her lover’s death, however it seems that she killed herself because she was led to believe that she was going to be disgracefully paraded through Rome in chains.

-Cleopatra died from the bite of an asp-
Again, this is an iffy one. The story of the asp first comes to us from Plutarch, but he didn’t say it was actually true. All we know for sure is that there were two tiny marks on her arm when her body was found.

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Hugo Alfredo Tale-Yax bled to death on a street in Queens, N.Y., while at least 25 people walked past him. Tale-Yax had tried to stop a thug who was attacking a woman with a knife, and he got stabbed himself.

Surveillance video has revealed that one man took a cell phone photo of Tale-Yax and kept walking. Another shook him, seemed to notice that Tale-Yax was bleeding profusely, then kept going. Pairs of people stared at him, then went on their way.

What can explain this kind of inhumanity?

Social psychologists call it the “bystander effect.” It was first demonstrated in behavioral studies by John Darley and Bibb Latane in 1968. Their research was prompted by the case of 28-year-old Kitty Genovese, who was brutally raped and murdered in front of her Queens apartment building while 38 people witnessed the crime from the safety of their apartments — and did nothing to stop it.

The “bystander effect,” proven time and time again, asserts that in many emergency situations, any one bystander will do no more than other bystanders, and that all assume that someone else will intervene. The idea that no one else seems to be doing much causes a kind of anesthesia of our inborn, individual empathy.

I would add that the “bystander effect” may be fueled by a kind of paralyzing, instantaneous psychological denial. The unconscious may lead us to “opt out” of participating in situations that seem too dramatic and out of the ordinary — like waking dreams. “How could I be on my way for a cup of coffee and come across a man bleeding to death?” the mind may ask. “This must be an illusion or a set-up. It certainly isn’t part of my reality.”

Obviously, the “bystander effect” is the opposite of personal responsibility, autonomy and courage.

I think the “bystander effect” is more widespread than most people imagine. It happens in many families, in which one member is being hurt by another (whether through drug abuse or sexual abuse or emotional abuse), and no one does anything to stop it. It is the reason that bullies can pick on a student in school and not incur the wrath of the group.

Indeed, I believe the “bystander effect” can operate culture-wide, as a society watches, anesthetized, as it slowly bleeds to death in full view of its citizenry, while everyone believes that someone else will intervene. Perhaps the terrible tragedy of Hugo Alfredo Tale-Yax is not only a window on how little we sometimes protect one another, but also how little we protect our very future as a nation.

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Stupid, Yet Interesting Facts

•The state with the highest percentage of people who walk to work: Alaska
•The percentage of Africa that is wilderness: 28% The percentage of North America that is wilderness: 38%
•Coca-Cola was originally green
•The cost of raising a medium-size dog to the age of eleven: $6,400
•The average number of people airborne over the U.S. any given hour: 61,000
•Intelligent people have more zinc and copper in their hair
•Each king in a deck of playing cards represents a great king from history: Spades – King David; Clubs – Alexander the Great; Hearts – Charlemagne; Diamonds – Julius Caesar
•111,111,111 x 111,111,111 = 12,345,678,987,654,321
•If a statue in the park of a person on a horse has both front legs in the air, the person died in battle. If the horse has one front leg in the air, the person died as a result of wounds received in battle. If the horse has all four legs on the ground, the person died of natural causes
•Only two people signed the Declaration of Independence on July 4th, John Hancock and Charles Thomson. Most of the rest signed on August 2, but the last signature wasn’t added until 5 years later
•”I am.” is the shortest complete sentence in the English language
•The term “the whole 9 yards” came from W.W.II fighter pilots in the South Pacific. When arming their airplanes on the ground, the .50 caliber machine gun ammo belts measured exactly 27ft, before being loaded into the fuselage. If the pilots fired all their ammo at a target, it got “The whole 9 yards
•Conception occurs more often in December than any other month
•Half of all Americans live within 50 miles of their birthplace
•If you were to spell out numbers, you would you have to go until One Thousand to find the letter “A”
•Bullet proof vests, fire escapes, windshield wipers, and laser printers were all invented by women
•There are more collect calls on Father’s Day than any other day of the year
•Mel Blanc (voice of Bugs Bunny) was allergic to carrots
•40% of all people at a party snoop in the medicine cabinet
•The most popular boat name requested by boat owners is “Obsession”
•Honey is the only food that doesn’t spoil
•The nursery rhyme “Ring Around the Rosey” is a rhyme about the plague. Infected people with the plague would get red circular sores (“Ring around the rosey”), these sores would smell very badly so common folks would put flowers on their bodies somewhere (inconspicuously), so that it would cover the smell of the sores (“a pocket full of posies”). Furthermore, people who died from plague would be burned so as to reduce the possible spread of the disease (“ashes, ashes, we all fall down!”)
•The first couple to be shown in bed together on prime time television were Fred and Wilma Flintstone

~The Meck~

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no oxygenDeep under the Mediterranean Sea, small animals have been discovered that live their entire lives without oxygen and surrounded by ‘poisonous’ sulphides. Researchers writing in the open access journal BMC Biology report the existence of multicellular organisms (new members of the group Loricifera), showing that they are alive, metabolically active, and apparently reproducing in spite of a complete absence of oxygen.

Roberto Danovaro, from the Polytechnic University of Marche, Ancona, Italy, worked with a team of researchers to retrieve sediment samples from a deep hypersaline anoxic basin (DHABs) of the Mediterranean Sea and studied them for signs of life. “These extreme environments,” said Danovaro, “have been thought to be exclusively inhabited by viruses, Bacteria and Archaea. The bodies of multicellular animals have previously been discovered, but were thought to have sunk there from upper, oxygenated, waters. Our results indicate that the animals we recovered were alive. Some, in fact, also contained eggs.”

Electronmicroscopy shows that instead of aerobic mitochondria, these animals possess organelles resembling the hydrogenosomes found previously in unicellular organisms (protozoans) that inhabit anaerobic environments.

The implications of this finding may reach far beyond the darker parts of the Mediterranean Sea floor, according to Lisa Levin of the Scripps Institution of Oceanography. In one of two commentaries accompanying this piece of research, she said, “The finding by Danovaro et al. offers the tantalizing promise of metazoan life in other anoxic settings, for example in the subsurface ocean beneath hydrothermal vents or subduction zones or in other anoxic basins.”

In the second commentary Marek Mentel and William Martin, from Comenius and Dusseldorf Universities look at the incidence of anaerobic mitochondria and hydrogenosomes in other organisms and focus on the evolutionary significance of the new findings. “The discovery of metazoan life in a permanently anoxic and sulfidic environment provides a glimpse of what a good part of Earth’s past ecology might have been like in ‘Canfield oceans’, before the rise of deep marine oxygen levels and the appearance of the first large animals in the fossil record roughly 550-600 million years ago.”

~Science Daily~

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We in Kentucky would like to think that our passion for basketball is not surpassed by any state in any sport in the country. But frankly, the obsession in Texas with football, and particularly high school football, probably is greater than anything Kentucky residents can conjure up. And understand me, I don’t consider this a positive. Drooling over every movement of a 16-year-old running back is not exactly saying much for the quality of your life.

Exhibit 1A: Allen High School, Dallas, Texas.

The folks in Allen just approved a bond to pay for a proposed 60-million-dollar football stadium. This stadium will include:

Video Scoreboard
Two level press box with film deck and Observation deck
Home side reserved seating with seat backs
1,5000 additional parking spaces with 4,500 total parking spaces
18,000 seat Stadium with upper deck seating including:
5,000 reserved seating,
2,700 General Admission
4,000 Students
5,300 Visitor
1,000 Band
Some might not understand how ridiculous this truly is. So, for comparison’s sake, here are some other things and what they cost:

University of Central Florida’s football stadium (opened in 2007): $55-million
Commonwealth Stadium (opened in 1973): $12-million
Commonwealth Stadium (cost ajusted for inflation): $57.3-million
Papa John’s Cardinal Stadium (opened in 1998): $63-million
Texas Memorial Stadium (opened in 1924): $275,000 (or just $3.42 million in today’s money)

Here are some other things the “good” people of Allen could have bought:
-666,667 NFL footballs
-700 Mercedes-Benz E Class (2010 model)
-120,000 Apple I-Pads (enough for every graduating Allen class member until 2106)

Point being, there were alot of things that the people of Allen could have done with their money, and in my mind alot of better things they could have done. But, I understand that this is America, so people can choose to do what they want with their money. So, I don’t think what they did was wrong, I just question the priorities of the people of Allen school district in Dallas.

Courtesy of Kentucky Sports Radio

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TAMPA, Fla. — Denard Span’s mother settled into her box seat, surrounded by 20 family members and friends, to watch her son lead off for the Minnesota Twins.

Uh oh. Look out!

In a shocking split-second, Span hit a hard foul ball that struck his mom in the upper chest Wednesday. She was treated by paramedics and back in the stands minutes later.

“Tell everyone that I’m all right,” Wanda Wilson told The Associated Press hours later by telephone. “Everyone was so worried, he was so worried. But I’m all right.”

“We had just gotten there. It happened so fast, you couldn’t do anything,” she said. “I was kind of in awe. But God is good, I’m OK.”

Wilson was wearing a Span jersey and sitting a few rows off the field, near the Twins’ third-base dugout. In the first inning against the New York Yankees, Span took a late swing on the sixth pitch of the game and sent a line drive that hit his mother near the shoulder.

“As the ball was in the air, I realized that it was going after my mom,” Span said after arriving back at Twins’ headquarters in Fort Myers. “When I saw her go down, I just couldn’t do nothing but go after her.”

Span ran into the packed stands and stayed with his mother while she got treatment. Shaken, she’d started to tear up.

“That’s what hurt me the most,” Span said, “when she started crying.”

The split-squad game was delayed for a few minutes as she walked to the first aid station. Span returned to the plate and struck out looking on the next pitch from Phil Hughes.

The Twins originally said Span would leave the game, but his mother was sitting in a different seat by the bottom of the first inning and he went to play center field.

“What the odds of that happening?” Twins pitching coach Rick Anderson said. “I’ve never seen it before. It’s crazy. I’m standing there right next to it and I heard it and it’s just, ‘Oh no!, that didn’t sound good.’ She’s on the ground and I’m saying, ‘Please don’t be the head or something’ because it sounded so ugly.”

Span flied out in the second inning. After the top of the third, Span said Yankees star Derek Jeter stopped him on the field and told him that it was OK to leave the game to check on his mother. Span left in the bottom of the third, telling a team official he wasn’t mentally into the game.

“I told her I came out of the game and she got mad at me because everyone came to see me play,” said Span, a Tampa native. “She was more mad at me for coming out of the game than me hitting her.”

The Twins were more than happy to let him go and the mother and son spent time together for the rest of the afternoon.

“It tore him up pretty good,” Anderson said. “They said she was fine and he got a chance to be with her. I’m sure he’ll probably buy her a nice dinner tonight,” he said.

Span tied for the league lead in triples last year, helping the Twins win the AL Central.

“It’s just been a crazy day,” he said after the 4-2 win over New York.

Anderson said a few inches either way could’ve made for a much more serious injury.

“It hit her in the meat. I guess if it got up on the bone or the shoulder blade or something, the trainer said it could have shattered it. No place is good, but if it had to be somewhere, at least it didn’t get a bone,” he said.

Said Yankees manager Joe Girardi: “Very scary and it had to be very scary for him, watching him run over there. Thank God she is OK. She is a tough lady, she stayed. She didn’t go to the hospital, nothing. I suspect you are not going to see him come out for many things, either.”

Spring training ballparks are much smaller than stadiums where regular-season games are held. But along with being more cozy, spring parks can be more dangerous because fans often sit closer to the field.

The backstop netting at George M. Steinbrenner Field goes all the way from behind the plate to the roof, and extends toward the dugouts. Span’s mother was sitting only a few rows off the field, in the first section where the netting ends.

“It’s kind of a dangerous spot,” Hughes said. “I think they should move the net all the way to the dugout because you can get those foul balls like that.”

Fans are often reminded to be alert for balls and bats that might go flying into the stands. But with objects traveling so fast, such injuries become perils of the game.

Hall of Famer Bob Feller heard about the Span accident and recalled the time he threw a pitch that was fouled off and hit his mom — on Mother’s Day.

“She was sitting right next to the dugout at Comiskey Park in Chicago,” the 91-year-old Feller said at Cleveland’s camp in Goodyear, Ariz. “It hit her right above the eye, broke her glasses and she needed seven stitches. It was in 1939. Some Mother’s Day for her, wasn’t it? I was pretty upset, but had to keep on pitching.”

~Associated Press~

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Bitching, Ho’s and Brew!!

There is a misnomer in our society to the tune of “household chores”. “Chores” imply that there is work that needs getting done. That makes sense, doesn’t it? In days of old, the man of the house would establish these chores and then divy them up to his clan. There would be no bullshit about this. My how times have changed for the worse. Jesus Christ how things have changed.

Today’s “household chores” are merely a fabrication of women to invent things to endlessly bitch about.
It’s easy to see this with a simple comparison. Men love drinking beer, and watching games galore whether its baseball, football, or basketball. We love it because beer is not only delicious for the mouth, but also for the mind. In other words its a great escape to get away from the constant “bitching”. Because of that, we find creative excuses to drink and get the hell out of the house away from these crazy ho’s.

For women it’s exactly the same. Except not with beer, with brow-beating and nagging. They love bitching about meaningless nonsense just like we men love treating ourselves to a nice, cold can of suds and an occassional anti anxiety med(we call em Z’s).

Similarly, they’ll invent creative excuses to wallow around in their naggery and bitchery(not sure if those are words). Excuses like completely empty goddamn pizza boxes left on the counter and bills not put into the bill drawer. Hey bitch do you wonder why in the hell Id rather be out with my boyz holl’n at a Bud Select and a Xanax?

That’s a great idea. Nothing’s ever been lost in a drawer…except for everything. Crazy ass ho’s will wear you thin!

I know that your first male instinct is to use this new knowledge to better understand a woman next time she is busting all balls within reach about some bullshit like shoes being left on the table. Don’t. Just accept that all women are wound up tighter than a Swiss watch and that they’re never going to change because they love it. Please do not ever think you can change these crazy bitches because you cant. Accept your a fucking moron for getting married in the first place.

I don’t know about you men, but all this thinking has made me quite thirsty. Hey pharmacist and bartender, hook a brotha up with a Z(Xanax) and a can of ice cold suds!

~The Meck~

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Women compete with each other at a societal level, the criteria for winning is usually set by others and the results are subjective and intangible. Women are usually judged by characteristics that they have little control over; something that they did not create, and that exist outside of themselves such as their physical appearance. Her success is based on subjective, biased, external validation by others. She can’t see how to beat her rival because her rival is in no more control of the outcome than she is. How can you really be more beautiful than another woman, when the decision is nothing more than someone else’s opinion of beauty?

How can you change someone’s personal preference for a certain body size and shape, a particular eye color or a fondness for blondes? How many people are needed to think that you are beautiful before it is a valid or meaningful judgment? Who do you need to tell you that you are beautiful before you can believe it to be true… construction workers, truck drivers, the man walking down the street, your pastor, the Pope, your boss? Women compete with each other for male attention and compliments as if it feeds their self-worth and self-esteem. Women try to dress sexier and have shapelier bodies than other women.

Women instinctively know that men have little power when it comes to sexual intercourse in male and female relationships. Women know that if a platonic relationship exists between a male and a female, ninety percent of the time it is a platonic relationship because the woman does not want to have sex with the man instead of visa versa. Most women do not feel that men are psychologically or biologically capable of resisting another woman’s sexual prowess because of their undying love, loyalty and respect for their committed relationship with them. If a man does not engage in a sexual relationship with a woman who is drop dead gorgeous, most women believe that it is because the other woman was in control of the outcome of the type of relationship. Women intuitively know that most heterosexual males find extraordinary beautiful women sexually irresistible and if that extraordinary beautiful woman wanted her man, he would be hers for the taking.

Women are so busy competing with each other for male attention that they do not have the psychological, intellectual or emotional insight to change the social climate that is causing them to suffer from low-self esteem. Women think of men as being promiscuous, unfaithful, lying, cheating dogs. But what most women need to come to grips with and understand is that research shows that a man is most likely to have a sexual affair with a woman’s best friend, relative or neighbor… a woman whom she trusts, loves and respects. One of the reasons that men who cheat are so successful at it is because women allow them to because they are in competition with each other.

Women believe that they are superior to other women if they are physically more attractive. In a commercial for a diet pill a woman bragged, “I am now smaller than the woman my husband left me for.” This statement leads me to believe that she felt that she deserved her husband’s infidelity when she was over weight. Her motive for losing weight was to be physically smaller than the other woman that her husband left her for. She viewed the other woman as competition more so than feeling betrayed by her husband’s disloyalty. The wife’s motive for losing weight was not to improve the status of her health or increase her self-esteem but be smaller than her competition__ the other woman. The weight control commercial is blatantly telling women that they need to look a certain way in order to earn their husband’s love and fidelity. It doesn’t matter whether or not you cook his meals, raise his kids, and support his dreams… what matters most in a relationship is whether or not you are physically attractive enough to keep your man at home. There is an assumption that it is natural for a man to cheat on a woman who he feels is no longer sexually appealing. Many women believe that it is their fault when their husband or boyfriend cheats on them because they are not attractive enough to keep him faithful.

A woman’s perception of self-worth is validated outside of her self from others and this affects her internal psychological concept of her own value as a human being. Women compete indirectly with other women because they have not learned how to recognize and channel their internal desires, feelings and goals into physical, tangible realities. Once women learn that they can not control or live vicariously through their children or the man in their life; they will stop hating each other and focus on their individual unique gifts, talents and assets.

Why do women hate other women?

1. Women feel that their biological prime-time is limited. She can easily be replaced by a new younger, more beautiful woman. Youth is a woman’s fair-weathered friend.

2. Women feel that other women control their man’s sexual fidelity.

3. Women feel that their level or degree of physical beauty is based on luck as opposed to something that she controls.

4. Women feel that other women can take something that they have worked hard to earn by using their beauty on the job, school and the legal system because men will be taken by her beauty.

5. Women feel that other women can not be trusted. They gossip too much, they are phony and they would take your man right before your eyes.

6. Women feel that other women divert attention away from them.

7. Women feel psychologically competitive with other women to be more attractive.

8. Women subconsciously believe that if they merely looked like another woman, they could inherit her life, her diamond, her man, and people would look at her with the same admiration.

By:  Cassandra George Sturges

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Jihad Jane Arrested

A U.S. official says a Colorado woman has been detained in Ireland in connection with an alleged plot to assassinate a Swedish cartoonist whose sketch offended many Muslims.

Jamie Paulin-Ramirez was among seven people arrested in Ireland this week as authorities investigate an alleged plot to kill the cartoonist over a 2007 sketch depicting the head of the Muslim prophet Mohammed on a dog’s body.

The U.S. official was not authorized to discuss the investigation and spoke on condition of anonymity.

After the arrests, U.S. authorities unsealed terror charges against Colleen LaRose of Pennsylvania. She allegedly went by the name “Jihad Jane” to recruit others online to kill the cartoonist.

It’s not clear whether Paulin-Ramirez might face terror charges.

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